
To look at this sweet little face you probably wouldn't believe it, but my little angel has been having some trouble with little white lies lately. It started a few months ago when I walked into the dining room and heard crinkling coming from under the table. I was holding Steven, so I knew it had to be Elise, so I said, "Elise, where are you?" A little voice came from under the table saying, "I'm nowhere and I'm not doing anything." I looked under the table to find my sweet little girl opening a candy bar she had been told she couldn't have, and then of course lying about it. We had a long talk about what a lie is, and I don't think she had lied to me since so I thought we had taken care of that little issue. Then on Tuesday the lie monster struck again.
The first time, Elise was in her room and I asked her to come to me in the hall. From her room her voice came saying, "Just a minute Mom, I have to empty the soap out of this container. Someone filled it with soap, but it wasn't me." I said to her, "Really, well then who was it?" Her answer was, "I don't know, Mom." I asked, "Was it me?" She said, "I don't think so." Then I asked, "Do you think Daddy did it?" She said, "I don't think so, I think it must have been Steven." Hmmm... since Steven had been napping for an hour, and since I was pretty sure that if he played with the liquid soap it would be all over everything and not neatly in a container I found this highly unlikely. I asked again, "Elise, did you do it?" "No, Mom" she said. I asked if she was lying to me and again she said no. We had a long talk about lies (and maybe a little bit about Santa's naughty and nice list) and she finally admitted to doing it. So, I thought I had taken care of that one again.
Later in the day Elise was downstairs and I asked her to come help me with something. She said, "Okay Mom, but I'm just going to keep my hand behind my back, but there isn't anything in it." Hmmm... does this seem slightly suspicious to anyone else? I asked her to show me her hands, and she said no. I asked her if she was lying about something. She thought for a minute and said yes. She then showed me that she had the paint in her hands that I had told her she could not use earlier. I took the paint and threw it away and told her that is what happens when we tell a lie. She was pretty upset, but I hope that she has learned her lesson. At least she's not a very good liar so I can be pretty certain that she won't ever get away with it!